'It isn't what we say or think that defines us, but what we do' - Sense and Sensibility - Jane Austen I have found my self as of late, while sat among my new friends, taking in the reality of where I am and how I got to be here. I want someone to pinch my arm. To ensure I am not in a dream, but rather reality. Because in reality, this is not where I would have seen myself 10 years ago. Let's be honest, even 5 years ago, I would have found it hard to believe you, if you told me I would be where I am. Dreams and plans have a funny way of not always coming to pass in the way in which we expect them too. Each trial,broken friendship, disappointment and failure has this odd role in changing our direction in life. In the moment those things can seem to be the most unbelievably inconvenient and devastating loss. It hits us from behind and causes us to loose our footing and question who we are and where God is leading us. I never thought I would be able to say this. But